Inna Shukshina

 Healing negative family lineage scenarios. 
Your lineage — what is that? What does it have to do with me? This subject is often unfamiliar and unclear to us. But as long as we do not accept something, take offence and fail to respect, we risk simply repeating our relatives’ actions again and again in order to learn acceptance and respect. And where relationships seem to us to be non-existent or “normal”, a great many old resentments may be hidden that will simply drain your strength and stop you moving easily towards your dream.

And here are the incredibly valuable discoveries and realisations that come to my clients after working on lineage scenarios:
 “Where everything seemed to me to be wonderful and fine, it turned out that it was not so simple and that there were many grievances and old resentments on my side. I managed to reconsider my attitude to my husband’s parents. And here too it turned out that everything is not as terrible and neglected as I thought. A light appeared at the end of the tunnel of resentments and grievances towards each other, and I realised in which direction I need to work. And this summer I am planning, with our whole large family, to put together a photo album with stories about every member of our lineage! Children should not merely know their roots, but know that nobody is forgotten. And that means that their own fate and deeds will also be remembered by their children and grandchildren!” Olga.

Also, an enormous resource for you may be hidden precisely in working with your lineage — support, love and greater stability in life.
 ” I could never have imagined that putting my relationships with relatives right could give such an enormous surge of energy and positivity. I had the feeling that some wound had healed inside me. And the other side felt something similar. For me this resource turned out to be a very powerful one.” Kseniya.

And the amazing thing is that you may even discover talents in yourself and develop your creativity easily once you see the values of your lineage.
 “Inna, it is such a discovery for me that, as it turns out, in my striving for creativity and beauty I carry deep family values. And I, having received all this wealth in childhood and even developed my creative talents in my school years, began in adult life consciously to suppress my creative impulses as bringing no real benefit, as unnecessary childish weaknesses! And how my heart rejoices at the realisation that I am not simply able to keep all this out of some whim of my own, but that in myself I am affirming an effective model of my ancestors’ behaviour, a model that allows a person to turn to their soul and hear themselves! ” S.

 And I have decided to invite you to a unique event — a day of consultations on Family Lineage Scenarios on Tuesday. We will be able to identify your goals, look at how your lineage influences you, see how to make that influence positive, and find the belief that may be limiting you — in relationships, in self-realisation and in finances. The consultation is over Skype or by phone, from any city or country, by voice, lasting about 40 minutes (paid).

Also, especially for Orthodox believers: it was precisely after working with their lineage that many were able to understand what the commandment to “honour your parents” means, how to do it when you have many grievances against them, when there is a fear that they will then start intruding on your territory, how to respect your parents and still live your own life, how to arrange the roles in the family correctly without becoming a mother to your own mother or to your husband, how to be an independent person and still have warm relationships with those close to you.

 Write to me at inly@list.ru or on VKontakte https://vk.com/inna_shukshina , and we will agree a time and I will answer your questions!
With love, Inna Shukshina, inspiring coach, psychologist