Inna Shukshina

You may have had this feeling too. When you set yourself a goal, get inspired, do things on a huge wave of energy, reach the first shifts and inspiring results, start to believe in yourself and in success — and then suddenly some obstacle appears. It stops you from carrying the goal through to the end, or everything drags on too long. Or rolls back. And you wait and wait for it all to finally work out. Losing strength and energy along the way. And by then the mood is gone, and you do not even feel like setting the next goal. You want to be left alone, to live a while doing nothing (apart from the bare essentials). It seems that once I have rested, then taking on the next goal will be easy.

In reality it is very easy to get stuck in this state and stop moving forward altogether. Being tired of “inner work”, of “achieving goals”, is nothing other than a signal from your inner self that something needs to be done differently. You should not stop setting goals, and you should not “rest” for months on end (which in reality means treading water and getting bogged down). You have probably noticed the state where you rest and rest, stop putting any load on yourself, and it does not help.

Rest matters — but — when there are no beliefs holding you back, rest turns out fuller and really does restore your strength instead of draining it!

You want to do things less and less, and it becomes harder and harder to move yourself to any new, unfamiliar actions. The world seems frightening, boring, incomprehensible, alarming and too heavy. You would like to relax from achieving goals (since going towards them seems tense and energy-consuming) — but fears and a vague dissatisfaction get in the way, and there is less and less strength and energy, or else it is spent in the wrong place — on quarrels, worries, fuss and achieving OTHER PEOPLE’S goals. And suddenly problems start appearing. First one thing, then another… and now there is a real excuse not to move forward — I am solving problems! No time for that!

Yes, as long as you have no goals of your own and are not moving towards them, you are moving towards something else. Towards what —  is not clear.

It was an incredible discovery for me that so-called “tiredness” of goals is deceptive. What is actually tiring is some single thought, or belief, and once you work it through, not a trace of the tiredness remains; energy and inspiration appear. Just last week — here is a real example — a client wrote that he was so tired at work;  he had been moving towards his goal of increasing his income, but suddenly a bad mood and exhaustion came over him — he felt so drained and depressed that he thought it would take about two months to recover, and he felt lost. But just one letter, in which I described the exercise “The magic gaze”, brought him out of this state in only 20 minutes, and 2 hours later I received this letter:

“Inna, thank you so much for your support, wise advice and recommendations! I tried following your advice:

and right before my eyes my state turned from some kind of agony and an unreal monster into an ordinary, good mood, just a little tired. Miracles, plain and simple! Thank you for your warm support and prayers! How good it is that you exist! J A pity I did not find the time to turn to you soonerJ. I had created monsters in my head) ”  

What is more, the new state turned out to be stable 🙂

Of course, he achieved such a result because we had already worked together in personal coaching and he had already travelled a valuable path towards understanding himself and already had results along that path. Not everyone can get into coaching with me, and the first thing I look at is how much you really want to arrive at what you are talking about. You would think that what all people dream of — a real result — is actually wanted by only a few. Most people simply do not allow themselves to believe it is possible and to let themselves reach their goal!

But those who read my articles are not like that, I think 🙂

I have seen this in myself more than once. When I was already in despair that anything would work out, when it seemed unrealistic — not enough strength, opportunities, time, resources — I would simply find the belief that was limiting me, and my mood changed instantly, energy and inspiration appeared! And every time I had to go through this again and again — for some reason, when we are in a pit it seems to us that nothing will help and that even if something worked before, it will not work now 🙂 Or — right now I have so many problems and things to do… I will deal with this later…

No! Inner work comes first. I am absolutely convinced that it is the most important thing in our lives and the most valuable. You could say — incredibly valuable. If you have peace and love inside, you will have everything else too. If you do not, then no task completed and nothing you own will make you happy. It is precisely when we sort things out within ourselves that everything external begins to line up harmoniously: unnecessary, time-wasting tasks fall away, new and more effective solutions are found, and things get resolved quickly. Everything goes only from the inside outwards.

And if you already want to work out what is holding you back, to remove all the obstacles on your path, to set yourself a new big goal or to dust off the old ones and finally achieve them, then write to me and I will hold a personal consultation for you on Tuesday, lasting 40 minutes. This consultation is an unusual one, only for those who really want to get a result and change their life for the better, but who understand that problems which have built up over months and years cannot be solved in a single meeting. Because I do everything so that you get not unstable one-off results but deep and lasting ones, and so as to inspire you towards a new style of living — so that you live in harmony with yourself and with your real goals. You will be able to look at your problem from the outside and decide whether to keep moving towards your goal with my help. For those clients who hear me and who are ready for change, the result is guaranteed. And let your first question be not about the price, but a short account of yourself and why you think you are really ready for change 🙂

Right now — today — is the best time 🙂

Inna Shukshina, inspiring coach

Write to me at inly@list.ru and on VKontakte https://vk.com/inna_shukshina